Five short years since I started this blog, and a lot has happened. I got my dream job, I married my dream man, I had a beautiful baby. And life is so amazing. And life is so challenging. Being a lawyer and a mom now for the first time, I can finally appreciate the challenges that women face in the workplace. It is difficult being raised feeling completely equal to men, and being told "you can do anything you put your mind to", only to realize when you want to start a family that, well, the system doesn't really work for women who choose to have a family. So, we must make concessions and we must make choices. And sometimes, we must work two full-time jobs, one of which is without pay (and often involves the night shift). I hope to work on this blog to document my journey as a mother and as a lawyer, sometimes the two being at odds with one another. Committing to making organic, home-made food for your baby and also to delivering a contract by the en...
Thus far, this blog has focused on the many benefits of mediation and alternative dispute resolution (ADR). But one of the things about ADR is that it is an alternative, as is indicated by its name. It allows for parties to have options to litigation should they decide it is not in their best interest for whatever reason. It allows for more creative problem solving where there is opportunity for it. So when mediation becomes mandatory and is imposed on parties, does it lose some of its benefits? Rule 24.1 of the Ontario Rules of Civil Procedure 1 requires that civil matters which are subject to case management 2 must have a mandatory mediation in the cities of Toronto, Ottawa, and Windsor before they can go on to litigation. While family matters are excluded from mandatory mediation, estates, trusts and substitute decisions are also included by Rule 75.1. Essentially then, parties who are involved in conflicts in these legal and geographical areas are forced to go thro...