For a possible solution to
this issue, I would propose to both Scrat and Scratte that they
should consider mediation. It is a reasonable first step to attempt
to avoid the cost, time, stress, and win-lose outcome of litigation.
Mediation is a voluntary
process, so Scrat and Scratte would have to agree to it, as well as
agree to a mediator. The mediator will not make their decisions for
them, but will assist in the negotiation process by directing and
managing the negotiation. Whether
Scrat and Scratte negotiate for themselves or they have
representatives, someone will be negotiating on behalf of each of
them. The outcome will not be binding unless the two decide
to put any negotiated outcomes into a signed contract. This allows
for a lot of flexibility, but will assist in controlling the parties'
emotions by providing some ground rules, improving the quality and
quantity of communication, and changing repetitive negative behaviour
such as the behaviour we have observed in the videos posted in the
facts above. These are all important elements in mediating a
relationship conflict, as per Moore (C
Moore, The Mediation
Process, 2d ed (San
Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 1996) at 60-62).
There
are a few things that will affect the success of mediation. Firstly,
the use of principles must be examined and principled rigidity must
be overcome. Secondly, it will have to be determined whether the
“pie” (in this case, the possession of the Acorn) can be
expanded, or just divided. And thirdly, things that deter settlement
should be analyzed so that they can be avoided.
The
first hurdle here will be overcoming principled rigidity. This idea
is discussed by Pruitt and Carnevale who consider the use of
principles in negotiation. Principles can be useful, such as a
principle of fairness, where both parties agree that the principle
applies and apply it in the same way. But it is a problem where
parties do not agree as to what principle applies, and and/or do not
agree in its application. Here, we have two principles – Scrat
feels Acorn was his first, and it is only fair that it be returned to
him. He will be able to find objective precedents as to the fact
that this is fair and just. Scratte, however, will disagree – she
will argue that “finders keepers” is the fair principle to apply,
and she also will be able to find objective precedents to show that
this principle is fair and just. Both parties are likely to be rigid
in their views. (D Pruitt and PJ Carnevale, Negotiation
in Social Conflict
(Open University Press, 1993) at 121-126).
In
this case, the negotiator (if applicable) or mediator will have to
persuade each party that the other's principle is equally valid to
their own. The negotiator or mediator will also want to shift the
discussion away from principles, and refocus discussions on the
concrete issues at hand, pointing out that finding a solution or
compromised based on those issues is more productive than arguing in
principal. (Pruitt, 1993).
The
second issue is whether the “pie” in issue, here the Acorn, can
be expanded or just divided. Negotiation is like the splitting up of
a pie: the bigger the slice one gets, the less of the pie is left for
the other. But the job of negotiators is not necessarily to get the
largest slice of the pie, it is also to try to expand the pie,
thereby providing more for everyone. The mediator could have a role
in pointing out expansions to the pie as well. (RH Mnookin, “Why
Negotiations Fail: An Exploration of Barriers to the Resolution of
Conflict” (1993) 8:2 The Ohio State Journal on Dispute Resolution
at 239). In this case for example, rather than say dividing who gets
the Acorn, or negotiating sharing strategies, perhaps the idea of
attempting to locate another acorn could be discussed.
The
final issue that should be considered involves avoiding things that
can deter attitudes that promote settlement. These include strategic
barriers and reactive devaluation (Mnookin 1993: 238-249). Strategic
barriers are related to the previous point. They arise from a tension
between “showing one's hand” to the other party to maximize joint
gains, and withholding information in order to maximize one's own
gains against the other. The risk taken in showing one's hand is
that the other party may not reciprocate, and may use it to their
advantage. Scrat may not want to tell Scratte, for example, that he
loves the Acorn, but he loves her too, and if she loved him back he
would happily give her the Acorn, because Scratte could take
advantage of this situation. A solution to this can be the mere
presence of the mediator, who may be able to promote the discussion
of these issues using communication and caucusing (discussing with
each party one on one).
Mediators
can also help diffuse the issue of reactive devaluation. This occurs
when a party feels that an offer from the other side is insufficient
just because it was offered. It reflects the concept that if it is a
good offer for the other party to make/accept, then it must be a bad
offer for the party in question. We saw an example of this in the
video clip where Scrat gave the Acorn to Scratte initially, but when
she accepted it, he changed his mind and wouldn't let it go.
Mediators can help with respect to this by acting as a buffer between
the two parties so that they are dealing through the mediator,
instead of directly with each other.
The mediator could be in a tough spot. If Scrat mentions to him in caucasing his true feelings for Scratte, what does the mediator do with this new information--withhold or divulge?
ReplyDeleteThe mediator's role is usually a facilitative role, so I don't think the mediator would divulge the information him/herself. However, in the caucus, perhaps the mediator could discuss with Scrat the benefits and risks of disclosing this information.
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